by Ratema Uch
A trip for eleven to Washington DC from the Bay Area sounded like a
great chance to enact change in policy, make new friends from across the
nation, and grow as organizers. And it was.
As the only organizing group representing California, the youth of
Forward Together’s CORE program felt the pressure to rep Oakland (and
Mac Dre) to the best of our abilities. I can’t say Washington DC greeted
us with open arms. We arrived hot and sweaty expecting cold weather,
only to get slapped in the face with a wave of heat through the Metro
and the fast-pace life of politicians. The first night was not one of
great interaction. But as the days wore on, it seemed as though Oakland
got more and more popular as youth from Alabama, South Carolina,
Colorado, Florida, and even Jamaica began to rave about their hopes of
visiting Oakland, CA in the near future.
Best believe Oakland introduced ourselves well with a “Let’s Talk
About Sex” song and Shabooyah Roll Call. All it took for us to break out
of our shells was being loud and obnoxious in our hotel room later that
night, attracting other youth who thought, “This must be where the
party’s at,” accompanied with multiple knocks on our door (including two
from hotel security).
Between the workshops and evening events throughout the five days,
we learned how to become better leaders, connect with social media, and
connect with other youth fighting for a comprehensive sex education in
their regions. We got advice on life, too. ;)
Lobby day was a bittersweet day. We woke up bright and early, packed
up, and suited up in our best professional attire to get ready to speak
with representatives of California Senators and Reps like Barbara Boxer,
Diane Feinstein, and Babara Lee. We were all pretty nervous, but once
our first meeting was over, we were feeling pretty good about ourselves.
We were lucky to meet with people who already support the need for
comprehensive sex ed in CA, but they also took notice of our stories
about our lives in Oakland. It just felt SO GOOD to know that support us
and were impressed with the Sex Ed the City campaign. Makes you feel
like you’re really making a difference in policy. I mean, shit, we were
making a name for ourselves at Capitol Hill! If that ain’t making
change, I don’t know what is. But then again, it was the last day and I
was sad to leave. :’(
Overall, UR2012 was a great experience. I met so many people that I
will miss dearly and I just felt so comfortable with everyone because
everyone was comfortable with their sexuality and selves, (which made
Sunday’s dance and talent show the best).
Pretty sure we repped Oakland hella hard. MEEP.
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